I Just Got Named Executor — Now What?
Someone you love just died. And now you've inherited 570 hours of admin across 20+ institutions that don't talk to each other. Here's what to do first, what can wait, and how to survive it.
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Someone you love just died. And now you've inherited 570 hours of admin across 20+ institutions that don't talk to each other. Here's what to do first, what can wait, and how to survive it.
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How Good Grief Helps Texas Families in the First Month After a Death When someone dies in Texas, families face an overwhelming wave of financial and administrative tasks, from filing for probate to closing accounts across 20+ institutions. Good Grief walks you...
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Best Probate & Legal Navigation Tools Most people have never heard the word "probate" until they're in the middle of it. Here are the best tools to help executors navigate the legal maze, and know when to call a lawyer.
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Best Account & Asset Discovery Tools The average person has over 100 online accounts. When someone dies, finding them all is a detective mission. Here are the best tools, and which ones you can use right now, before it's too late.
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What To Do in the First Month After Someone Dies in Texas The first month after a death in Texas is confusing and overwhelming. This guide walks you through what actually matters in the first 30 days—so you can avoid costly mistakes and buy time.
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All Types of Cremation Demystified Cremation isn’t one-size-fits-all. This guide breaks down the different types of cremation—on-site, off-site, witness cremation, and water cremation—so families understand what their options...
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Everything You Never Wanted to Know About Shipping Human Remains Shipping a body isn’t something families are prepared for—yet it happens more often than you think. This guide breaks down how human remains are transported by plane, the legal requirements, who...
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What We Learned About Flying with Cremated Remains Traveling with cremated remains can feel overwhelming, especially at the airport. This guide explains TSA rules, approved containers, carry-on tips, and what to expect—so you can focus on honoring...
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Did You Know You Could Be Buried at Sea? Burial at sea isn’t just a myth or a Viking fantasy—it’s a real, legal option in the U.S. This guide explains how sea burials work today, the EPA rules involved, state-by-state challenges, typical...
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Estate EIN: Why Every Executor Needs One When someone dies, their Social Security number is retired—but the estate still needs a tax ID to function. This guide explains what an estate EIN is, when it’s required, how to apply, and how...
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Dead, Died, Dying: Why I Avoid Using the Phrase “Passed Away”. “Passed away” may sound gentler, but it can distance us from the reality of death. This piece explores why language matters, how euphemisms shape fear and avoidance, and why saying “died” can be...
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Why Estate Planning Matters Even More for LGBTQ+ Families For LGBTQ+ families, dying without a will can mean the wrong people inherit and the right ones are left out. This guide explains how intestacy laws work, why chosen family isn’t protected, and how...
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Letters Testamentary vs. Death Certificate: What’s the Difference? Death certificates and letters testamentary serve very different roles after someone dies. This guide explains what each document does, when you need them, and why both are essential for managing...
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A Complete Guide to Death Certificates Death certificates are the key document that unlocks everything after someone dies—from probate and bank accounts to insurance claims and title transfers. This guide explains what they are, how to...
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Executor Tax Checklist: What Expenses Are Deductible After Death Executors often miss valuable tax deductions after death. This checklist explains which expenses are deductible, where to claim them, and how Forms 1040 and 706 differ—so you don’t leave money on...
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